When a man asks a woman for anal sex, most often the woman will cringe in fear and clench her cheeks with a very loud, “Absolutely not!” thrown at him for good measure. It’s true, Anal sex can be frightening. In fact, it can be downright painful if it’s not done properly. We always hear horror stories about anal sex, too. You know the ones where they forgot the lube or he went in too fast. While these stories are probably true, it stands to reason that they could have been avoided if the couple knew how to properly perform. That’s what this guide is for.
1.Use Good Lubricant
Do not use petroleum jelly as a lubricant! No matter how fabulous it lubricates and how easily affordable it is, petroleum jelly will actually eat a hole in the condom and render it useless.
2.Make It Slow
In order to have amazing anal, you have to go slow and soft. There should be no pounding! You could seriously be injured by hard anal sex, especially if you’re a beginner at it.
3.Remain in Control
It’s important that the partner who is being anally penetrated for the first time remain in control.
4.Keep It Clean
This is where lube comes in. It should basically just feel like you might need to poop. You don’t! Relax your muscles, and breathe.
5.It Is Not Dirty
The anus and the lower part of the rectum actually have very little fecal material in them, which means it tends to not be nearly as dirty as you think.
6.Don’t Forget Vaginal Stimulation
There are many shared nerve endings between the walls of the vagina and the anus, so stimulating the vagina simultaneously can be extremely pleasurable.
7.Use a Condom
To reduce risk of infection make use of Condom.
8.A glass of wine and romance can help.
Don’t just decide to do it and go for it. While you don’t want to drink so much that you get too numb, a drink or two to relax may be just what you both need.